Gracefully Leading

I love what one author has written about. I  love it so much that I keep coming back to it in my mind and my ministry.

It is a simple truth, but very profound. It is easy to understand and has implications in a myriad of situations (from parenting, to work, to friendships, etc.)


Here it is. Jesus was full of grace and truth John 1:14). Simple, yet far reaching. Key for us as Christian leaders, but deep enough to challenge us at every turn.

Jesus was full of grace and full of truth. He didn’t fall too hard on one side or the other.

So I need to ask myself, “Based on my belief in Jesus, am I full of grace and truth?” If we aren’t full of both, do we lean too heavily to one side at the expense of the other?

Let’s meditate on this thought (filling our minds with it) and ask God to help us live and lead full of grace and truth. When we do, we will be like and lead like Jesus.

PrintAs leaders in church world, we want to be both gospel-centered and grace-centered in our leading. And really they are both inextricably linked.

We want to lead others in a way that’s full of grace.

So let’s lead other as we follow Jesus and let’s gracefully lead them.


I Meant This Article for This Blog

How well do you know you? Think about and ask yourself the following questions, “Do I know who I am? Do I know who I am in Christ? Do I know who God is? Do I know how God leads me?” I mention these because they are so key in understanding who you are spiritually […]

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Called to Lead

We can go to many examples in scripture regarding God’s call in different people’s lives.

Abraham, Noah, Elijah, David, and Samuel are just a few that come to mind.

But there are few calls that are as clear as God’s call on the life of Jeremiah in Jeremiah 1:4-19.

After reading that, we uncover some key principles for us and how to lead others for God’s kingdom and God’s glory.

In other places in scripture, we see and know that how we lead is what sets up apart as Christians (see Mark 10:42 & 43).

So some principles we can glean from God’s call in Jeremiah’s life are:

  • God knows us and calls us – 1:5.
  • We need to take action on this call – 1:7, 17.
  • We find courage as God’s presence goes with us – 1:8, 17.
  • God provides for and protects His own – 1:8, 19.

These thoughts and ideas can bring us hope, strength, and comfort during those times when we like Jeremiah here and Moses centuries before, are humanly reluctant to accept what God has called us to.

So lets’ go forward, knowing that He who called us is faithful. Let’s take action trusting that He will provide the strength, the words, the wisdom, and whatever other resources we may need. And let’s move ahead with faith in God and determination in spirit.




Decisions or Disciples?

One question we must ask ourselves as leaders in church world is, “Am I leading people to make decisions or am I making disciples?”

Which one of those do you think Jesus prefers according to Matthew 28:18-20?

What is the difference between the two?

With all this in mind, I feel more and more compelled to be about making disciples. It is not only in written about in books and spoken about at pastor conferences, but it’s on my mind and heart a lot.

That being said, I’d love to hear from you.

What are some success stories you’ve had in making disciples in the last 6-12 months?

What are your best practices for doing so?

Please feel free to share comments below. I look forward to reading them.


One skill most professors and seminaries are good at teaching pastors is exegeting scripture. This is a needed and necessary skill. Most pastors or weekly speakers at evangelical churches are fairly adept at this.

I want to post here for a few minutes about a skill we need to improve in. That skill is the exegeting of culture.

It needs to be said, though, we start with theology and scripture and let those direct and drive our sermons. In addition to that, we’d do well to do a little anthropological digging as it regards our people and where they are coming from related to the biblical message and walking in faith.

For a case study loosely based on this premise, see Acts 17 and how Paul approached the philosophers and other thinkers on Mars Hill.

This skill has to do with knowing the context of the culture around us and what society thinks or believes (and our congregation specifically) regarding different biblical texts or topics. Some would call it “knowing your audience.”

That being said, we do need to be careful and not put too much sermon prep time or stock into this. In the past, most communicators have relied heavily on recent surveys or statistics. We can spend too much time on it in an effort to be trendy or hip. Or we can put too much stock in it and be discouraged before we step up to share God’s Word. So we need to be balanced in our approach.

With some of the tools available to us today, however, we can get information from our own people that is more fresh and more current than the latest Gallup or Barna poll. Investing 10-15 minutes in some well-worded questions to be sent out to people within our congregations in preparation for a sermon can uncover a wealth of information and insight for us as communicators.

Our goal in this is simply to find out where culture and our people are at so we can lead them through the text and to where God wants them to be. And when I say “them,” I mean their thoughts, their attitudes and their actions.

I like to use the analogy of GPS or a mall map. Before we can find out where we want to go, we need to find where we’re at.

Think of exegeting culture as the “You are here” dot on a mall map.

Let’s do this alongside the needed and valuable biblical exegesis; not in place of it. If we do, I think it can assist us in helping God’s people to grow and walk humbly with God.

What are your thoughts on this topic?

Faithfulness and Fruitfulness

I was at a conference recently and was just reviewing my notes today.

There was definitely one thought that caught my attention and has stuck with me.

Transformation = grace + truth + time

I know in church world, we tend to focus on truth and sometimes interject grace, but often forget or neglect the idea of time. We want God to work and we want to see it happen now. We want people to get it….now.

I was also at a local pastors gathering recently and that was a predominant theme. We may or may not have vented some frustration over lack of life change. We dialoged about the tension between faithfulness and fruitfulness. We have a great deal of control over the first and often obsess about the second. It’s over the fruitfulness aspect that we have frustration and over which we have little control.

Let me share a few verses that may bring some needed to perspective and some necessary encouragement to those of us impatient people in church world leadership.

“Therefore, my dear brothers, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.” 1 Corinthians 15:58

“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” Galatians 6:9

Underline and underscore the thoughts of doing God’s work, doing it “in the Lord,” and seeing a harvest, “at the proper time.” The proper time is determined by the One called the Lord of the harvest (Luke 10:2), not by us.

So stand firm in speaking the truth and doing it in a grace-giving way. But don’t forget that it takes time for those we lead to “get it.” So stand firm. Rely on God and His strength. Remember…

Transformation = grace + truth + time

Don’t forget that God is the One who brings about life transformation. And keep sharing God’s love, God’s truth, and God’s grace.

Life Together

I read a quote recently that got me thinking and it may do the same for you in your ministry as well.

“There is no life change without life exchange.”

The more I ponder this, the more true I think it is.

Consider two passages of scripture.

“God made him who knew no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God,”

2 Corinthians 5:21

In other words, Jesus’ life for mine. This is the heart of the Christian life (see also Galatians 2:20).

But ponder more of God’s words.

“We loved you so much that we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel but our lives as well, because you had become so dear to us,”

1 Thessalonians 2:8

Let’s look at these one at a time.

With whom do I need to exchange my life for salvation according to 2 Corinthians 5:21? Trusting Jesus is really trusting in his life for mine as a perfect substitute.

With whom do I need to share (exchange) my life with to see spiritual impact according to 1 Thessalonians 2:8? The short answer is those whom I share the gospel with. In other words, it’s sharing at a deeper level than just a few truths. It’s sharing in a practical, personal, and intentional way. And it’s about sharing the gospel and life with believers and unbelievers alike. It’s not one or the other.

And so it seems if we want to spiritually impact others, one way we do that is by sharing life with them. Not little snippets or trite sayings, but the intense, tough parts that get to the heart of life, who we are as people, who we are called to be as Christ followers, who God is, and what he has promised to do. It seems serving others is about sharing hours together, not just 5 minutes here or 10 minutes there. Really sharing life is more like a crock pot and less like a microwave.

So chew on these ideas for awhile. And if you want to impact others and lead them to all God has called to them, throw open the doors of your life and share it with those God puts on your heart to influence.

If you want to go deeper, what are one or two new ways can you share life with a believer or unbeliever this week? Think about that, then put it down in your life to do it.